Communication With a Senior: When to Give up the Car Keys

There are certain signals that might mean it is time to give up the car keys. Unfortunately, very few seniors pay attention to how crucial these signs are:

1. Being nervous behind the wheel
2. Slower reaction times
3. Poor vision
4. Near accidents or collisions while driving
5. Getting lost easily
6. Hearing loss

In order to ease the stress of everyone involved, approaching this topic is best done well in advance – before any of the above signs begin. A starting point may be suggesting a compromise, ending a seniors’ driving days once their current car is no longer working.

Optimally, an adult child can ask the parent’s physician to discuss driving with their loved one. This generation of older adults has tremendous respect for doctors and may respect a third party of authority more than their own children. The doctor may suggest that a senior retake the driving test, or they may be better able to explain the risks of driving and provide alternatives.

One technique many people try to do that often backfires is hiding or “losing” your loved one’s keys or disabling the car. This can lead to more confusion or frustration and could only make the problem worse.

While most seniors face uncertainty and stress during major adjustments, there are resources available to make any transition easier. This is where the Jewish Pavilion Senior Services steps in. Jewish Pavilion serves as a resource that provides room visits, festive holiday celebrations, and more to 450 Jewish residents in fifty facilities for seniors.  Visit www.JewishPavilion.org for assistance while navigating new situations in any aspect of life.